For the past few months, I had lost hope in women-led organisations. Which is ironic because I lead one. This thought wasn’t solely rooted in personal experiences but also stemmed from the stories of others. I questioned whether this was a consequence of the deep-seated effects of patriarchy, attempting to sow hate among us. I questioned whether I could do better now that I knew better. 

However, before I digress into issues that need another whole series of conversations. This article is not intended to criticize. It is a celebration of the extraordinary women who have crossed my path, both past and present as well as those who will influence my future. It also expresses gratitude to the men who have been – and continue to be – essential in assisting and empowering women to achieve success. We see you. 

When the universe, or God, or whoever you want to call it, presented me with the chance to become a part of the 7th Annual Global Networking Event, organised by the remarkable Women In Nature Network in Kenya (WiNN Kenya), it was as if the many questions I had were going to be answered. The sense of lose of hope was gaining new light. 

WiNN Kenya

First of all, I had no idea that the Women in Nature Network existed. It’s been 10 years since its formation – a force ignited by Dr Leeanne Alonso. 

On the first day of the 7th Annual Global Networking event, I was incredibly emotional. Seeing so many women, young and old in one room brought together to shine a light on women empowerment, filled my heart with joy every single time. It was enlightening. Everyone was carrying stories of hope 

The event blended voices from 15 countries across the globe – Kenya, Tanzania, Uganda, Rwanda, Nigeria, Cameroon, the USA, Ecuador, Mexico, Costa Rica, Nepal, India, Bangladesh, Peru and Spain. A collection of shared experiences. In this awe-inspiring atmosphere, a single truth echoed: empowered women empower women. This message was highlighted across conversations and speeches, transcending boundaries and all our beautiful cultures. Every interaction was magical and became a testament to the potential of unity and the need to elevate women’s role in shaping the world of nature, biodiversity and environmental conservation.

Favour

Allow me to begin by recounting my major light bulb reflective moment during the WiNN Kenya event. Among the speakers, Dr Jacqueline Uku, posed a compelling question: “What does favour look like to you?” This question prompted me to ponder the journey that brought me to where I stand today. Who are the individuals that guided me along the way? Would I have reached this point without their guidance, encouragement, unwavering support, gentle nudges, and even financial support? Maybe you should also ask yourself these questions as well.

Through this simple question, a profound realisation came to me: I stand where I am due to the collective efforts of countless individuals. I have been guided and mentored, and others have believed in me even when I didn’t. All this was and is “favour“. And now, it’s my turn to be a beacon of guidance and an advocate for those who aspire. I have always known this. I also continue to do this hence why Biophilic Conversations was formed in the first place. 

Other memorable moments

WINN Kenya 2023 was a reminder of where doors aren’t always wide open “I will have to work twice as hard”, “I have to position myself”, and “I have to be heard and speak louder, especially in a room full of men”. For each obstacle we overcome, we create a path for ourselves and those who follow.

Mentorship emerged as a cornerstone of growth—a guiding hand extended from the experienced to the aspiring. While the conversation also emphasized that while a mentor might guide, the journey is ultimately ours. No one else can walk in your shoes. Despite hurdles, the journey must be undertaken by you.

Another profound moment was the openness everyone had to share what they have gone through, their experiences and journeys across their careers as they navigate life and motherhood. From seasoned professionals to early-career women, everyone had a unique perspective. It is worth noting that there was no holding back on sharing and learning from one another. Sometimes it can be difficult to be in a space where everyone keeps to themselves or talks in hush tones.

Privileges 

It was also a remarkable moment to recognise the privileges I have had along the way. I have gone to good schools and even gotten opportunities some may only dream of. There is the privilege of family and friends support which not everyone has especially as a wild mom. I realised that I have been empowered and therefore I am at an advantage to do more and be more. I am also at an advantage to be better and do better. It was a reminder that the essence of mentorship lies in nurturing, lifting others, and creating a legacy that transcends generations.

Being surrounded by inspiring women in nature was truly uplifting. It felt like my energy was in the right place, and I consider this event one of my answered prayers – to be surrounded by such incredible women in one room. 

Way Forward

I have always wondered if we need more spaces for women to be motivated to continue in their careers, especially in nature conservation. So often, some lose hope of their dreams of becoming professors or research scientists along the way. Some change direction and pursue other careers or ventures. Others choose to go the route of comfort maybe because opportunities have not been forthcoming. But my main mantra has always been, ‘Define success on your own terms’. Know yourself, know what you want for your life and not what anyone else wants for your life. 

In this space, if you can be a light to other women, do it. Do not hold back. Find ways in which you can mentor with a giving heart. It takes a whole lot of effort but once you realise “to whom much is given much is expected” nothing should hold you back. 

As a storyteller knowing that stories shape lives, the WiNN Kenya event symbolised the beginning of a tale—a tale where women in nature are emerging as architects of change, shaping narratives across continents, cultures, and generations.

Also, women do hold fabulous events. WiNN’s 7th Annual Global Networking Event was extraordinary. 

Cover photo by Martha Mutiso